Awaken intimacy, regain control, rediscover you

here to support your sexual wellbeing
I’m Lorraine Grover, and welcome to my website. I support men and women experiencing sexual health and intimacy challenges, providing a safe, understanding space to talk openly. Together, we’ll explore your concerns, find the right solutions, and help you regain confidence and connection.
With over thirty years’ clinical experience in the NHS and private sector, I trained as a nurse at St Bartholomew’s Hospital, London, and qualified as a Psychosexual (Sex) Therapist in 2003. I have extensive experience managing erectile dysfunction, including developing nurse-led clinics at St George’s Hospital and contributing to early sildenafil (Viagra) trials. I take a holistic approach, addressing both psychological and physical causes, tailoring care to individual needs.
I’m also involved with the Sexual Advice Association, Prostate Cancer UK, and Macmillan Online Community, providing practical, expert support.
I serve on the ESSM Advisory Board, representing the National Affiliated Societies, and I am proud to be the first nurse to hold this position.
I look forward to guiding you toward renewed confidence and connection.
Expert guidance in intimacy, sexual health, confidence, and relationships.
Sexual health plays a vital role in overall wellbeing and relationships. My role is to support, guide, and empower you to overcome challenges, restore confidence, and improve intimacy.



Rebuilding intimacy after cancer treatment begins
Ill health can have a profound impact on both individual and partnered sexual wellbeing. The diagnosis itself can create emotional strain and treatments such as surgery, radiotherapy and chemotherapy often bring physical changes that affect intimacy, desire and sexual function.
I have particular expertise in supporting people affected by prostate cancer, helping individuals and couples understand and manage the sexual side effects of treatment. As my work has grown and people have reached out for support, I now also work with individuals impacted by colorectal, breast and head and neck cancers, including mouth cancer.
My approach is compassionate and evidence based, focusing on restoring confidence, improving communication and helping people to reconnect with intimacy during and after illness.
MALE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION
Erectile Dysfunction
Erectile dysfunction is when it’s difficult to get or sustain an erection.
Premature (Early) Ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates semen too soon.
Delayed Ejaculation
Difficulty or inability to ejaculate despite sexual stimulation or desire.
Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder
Persistent low sexual desire causing distress or relationship difficulties.
Substance / Medication – Induced Sexual Dysfunction
Sexual problems caused by medications or substances affecting sexual function.
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Guide to understanding erectile dysfunction
Learn more about the process of understanding sexual difficulties, from initial checks and discussions to supportive guidance, tests, and treatment options.
FEMALE SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION
Female Orgasmic Disorder
Challenges in reaching orgasm, impacting sexual satisfaction and wellbeing.
Female Sexual Interest / Arousal Disorder
Difficulty experiencing sexual desire or arousal, affecting intimacy and wellbeing.
Genito-Pelvic Pain / Penetration Disorder (previously known as Vaginismus)
Pain or difficulty with vaginal penetration, causing distress and discomfort.
Substance / Medication – Induced Sexual Dysfunction
Sexual problems caused by medications or substances affecting sexual function.
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CLINIC LOCATIONS
Patients, please use the Carebit portal to book your appointment. Emails aren’t suitable for clinical advice, so I may not be able to respond with guidance.
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