Lorraine Grover
Psychosexual Nurse Specialist
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Sexual health plays a vital role in overall wellbeing and relationships. My role is to support, guide, and empower you to overcome challenges, restore confidence, and improve intimacy.
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Here to support your sexual wellbeing
I’m Lorraine Grover, and welcome to my website. I support men and women experiencing sexual health and intimacy challenges, providing a safe, understanding space to talk openly. Together, we’ll explore your concerns, find the right solutions, and help you regain confidence and connection.
With over thirty years’ clinical experience in the NHS and private sector, I trained as a nurse at St Bartholomew’s Hospital, London, and qualified as a Psychosexual (Sex) Therapist in 2003. I have extensive experience managing erectile dysfunction, including developing nurse-led clinics at St George’s Hospital and contributing to early sildenafil (Viagra) trials. I take a holistic approach, addressing both psychological and physical causes, tailoring care to individual needs.
I’m also involved with the Sexual Advice Association, Prostate Cancer UK, and Macmillan Online Community, providing practical, expert support.
I serve on the ESSM Advisory Board, representing the National Affiliated Societies, and I am proud to be the first nurse to hold this position.
I look forward to guiding you toward renewed confidence and connection.
30+
Years’ clinical experience in the NHS and private sector
2003
Qualified as a Psychosexual (Sex) Therapist
1st
Nurse to hold a position on the ESSM Advisory Board
2026
Doctify Great Patient Experience award
Expert guidance in intimacy, sexual health, confidence, and relationships.
Sexual health plays a vital role in overall wellbeing and relationships. My role is to support, guide, and empower you to overcome challenges, restore confidence, and improve intimacy.
Male sexual dysfunction
- Erectile DysfunctionErectile dysfunction is when it’s difficult to get or sustain an erection.
- Premature (Early) EjaculationPremature ejaculation is when a man ejaculates semen too soon.
- Delayed EjaculationDifficulty or inability to ejaculate despite sexual stimulation or desire.
- Hypoactive Sexual Desire DisorderPersistent low sexual desire causing distress or relationship difficulties.
- Substance / Medication: Induced Sexual DysfunctionSexual problems caused by medications or substances affecting sexual function.
Female sexual dysfunction
- Female Orgasmic DisorderChallenges in reaching orgasm, impacting sexual satisfaction and wellbeing.
- Female Sexual Interest / Arousal DisorderDifficulty experiencing sexual desire or arousal, affecting intimacy and wellbeing.
- Genito-Pelvic Pain / Penetration Disorder (previously known as Vaginismus)Pain or difficulty with vaginal penetration, causing distress and discomfort.
- Substance / Medication: Induced Sexual DysfunctionSexual problems caused by medications or substances affecting sexual function.
Erection Connection
Guide to understanding erectile dysfunction
Learn more about the process of understanding sexual difficulties, from initial checks and discussions to supportive guidance, tests, and treatment options.
Learn moreDid you know?
Black men have a 1 in 4 risk of developing prostate cancer.
Yet stigma around masculinity and sex along with common fears about sexual difficulties after diagnosis often prevents them from seeking help early.
1 in 10 men experience erection difficulties.
Sexual health matters. Don’t ignore the signs. Addressing them early can improve long-term health, confidence, and quality of life.
Around 1 in 5 women experience challenges reaching orgasm.
With support and treatment, sexual wellbeing, confidence, and intimacy can significantly improve.
After cancer
Rebuilding intimacy after cancer treatment begins
Ill health can have a profound impact on both individual and partnered sexual wellbeing. The diagnosis itself can create emotional strain and treatments such as surgery, radiotherapy and chemotherapy often bring physical changes that affect intimacy, desire and sexual function.
I have particular expertise in supporting people affected by prostate cancer, helping individuals and couples understand and manage the sexual side effects of treatment.
Support for people affected by
- Prostate cancer
- Colorectal cancer
- Breast cancer
- Head and neck cancer
- Mouth cancer
As my work has grown and people have reached out for support, I now also work with individuals impacted by colorectal, breast and head and neck cancers, including mouth cancer.
My approach is compassionate and evidence based, focusing on restoring confidence, improving communication and helping people to reconnect with intimacy during and after illness.
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